10/01/2026
If you could not speak for yourself tomorrow, would the person you trust know why you make the choices you make?
Planning ahead is not only about deciding yes or no to a list of future treatments.
It is also about helping someone understand you.
What are you hoping to protect?
What makes a good day a good day?
How much information do you want before making a medical decision?
Are you willing to try a treatment if there is a reasonable chance it will help? How would you think about that choice if the treatment became more burdensome or was no longer helping you reach your goals?
There may not be one answer that fits every situation.
That is why the reasons behind your choices matter.
When the person speaking for you understands your goals, preferences, and what matters most to you, they have more than a list of instructions. They have a guide for making decisions when the situation is something no one could have predicted.
You do not have to figure this out in one conversation.
Start by talking about what matters to you and why.
Care management can help older adults and families ask these questions, understand their options, and make a plan that reflects the whole person.
If you are not sure where to begin, we are happy to start with a conversation.