07/09/2026
LESS ISN'T ALWAYS BETTER
One of the things I've been talking to clients about recently is calories. And there's one sentence that keeps coming up when I give someone their target.
“I can't eat that many calories.”
And I completely understand why people think that way. If you've decided you want to lose weight, it seems logical that eating less must mean losing more weight. So if 1,800 calories is your target, surely 1,500 would be even better. And 1,200 must be better still.
But that's where we need to stop and think about what we're actually trying to achieve.
Here's the science bit...
Your body needs energy every day just to keep you alive and functioning. That's your basal metabolic rate, or BMR. Then there's everything else you do during the day — walking, working, training, moving around, digesting your food and generally getting on with life.
When we're trying to lose weight, we generally need to create a calorie deficit. In simple terms, that means taking in less energy than you're using over time.
But that doesn't mean the bigger the deficit, the better the diet.
If you make that deficit unnecessarily aggressive, you can end up much hungrier, with less energy, poorer training and a diet that's becoming harder and harder to stick to.
And this is the bit I really want people to understand.
Your calorie target isn't a number you're supposed to beat.
If we've worked out that 1,800 calories is an appropriate target for you and you decide you're going to eat 1,200 because you think less must be better, you've not found a better diet.
You've just made the plan harder.
And I've seen this so many times. Someone starts off determined, cuts their food right down, spends their days thinking about what they can and can't eat, gets tired and eventually reaches the point where they can't keep doing it.
Then they eat more.
They feel like they've messed up.
They try to compensate by eating even less.
And the whole cycle starts again.
That's not necessarily a willpower problem. Sometimes the approach is the problem.
At FitLab, I'm not interested in teaching you how little food you can get away with eating.
I'm interested in helping you understand what you need, why you need it and how we can make it work with your life.
Because losing weight isn't about seeing how miserable you can make yourself for the next few weeks.
It's about finding an approach that gives you a calorie deficit, supports your training and your day-to-day life, and is something you can actually stick with.
So if you've been looking at your calorie target and thinking “I can't eat that much”, I'd ask you to stop and think about why.
Maybe the number isn't the problem.
Maybe your idea of what weight loss is supposed to look like is.
And if you're not sure whether your current target is right for you, don't just start cutting it further.
Come and talk to me.
Let's look at it together.
Because less isn't always better.
Sometimes better is better. 🧡