08/12/2026
You can’t always come first but damn, do you have to disappear?
I get it.
The schedule. The responsibilities. The school pickup. The meetings. The groceries.
And the gym can feel like another project to manage. Another thing demanding more from you.
I never would have fallen in love with training if I had to plan my workouts, decide what to do next, choose my weights and coach myself.
Y’all, I fell in love with the gym two decades ago when I stopped being the project manager.
I showed up.
My program was ready.
I was coached.
I was watched.
I was challenged.
The gym became a place where others POURED INTO ME.
And wow… that changed the game.
Twenty years later, I’m an expert in the gym, programming for a roster full of others and I still outsource my own training to another coach.
Because I refuse to let my strength and health turn into a burden.
I matter. I count. I need people to pour back into me, too.
Maybe you do, too.
You don’t have to come first every day.
But you don’t have to delete yourself completely.
Book your bestie. Come somewhere that pours into you.