I’m Andrea, And My Future-Focused Approach To Divorce Coaching Helps You Let Go Of Overwhelm And Embrace What’s Next.
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I’ve got a catchy phrase for you to work with when you find yourself riled up with your partner or soon to be former partner: get curious, not furious.
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Being obsessed with closure is a guaranteed way to have a difficult divorce.
Divorce gives us brief moments of closure, but usually on the back end of it a new part of the process opens up again.
How are you managing your obsession with closure?
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Today we are talking about a little twist on how to share our feelings in a more safe and connecting way. It’s called an impact statement - give it a try?
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Flexibility is a must for divorce.
But how do we develop it?
Start by finding different ways to hold onto your core values even as the circumstances around you change constantly.
06/24/2026
A number of my clients are crossing big thresholds this week…
telling their partner about divorce,
buying and selling homes,
living into acceptance,
holding their grown and still growing children’s hearts as they process loss,
and seeing even faintly that they are in fact building a healthier thing.
Divorce is a path no one ever wanted. For those of you walking it, I send my love and heart today.
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If you are the primary parent of your children and are going through a divorce, it may surprise you how much resentment you have introducing a new dynamic where the other parent participates more.
Including another voice in territory where you previously ruled independently can feel like the most clumsy three-legged race.
How do we push through our resistance? A clear commitment to a “why” that makes sense to us. Hint - it often involves some version of “because my children deserve it.”
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When do you file?
You don’t announce or file when you’ve emotionally had it.
You announce or file when you’ve done your homework.
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There can be a lot of love between couples who find themselves at the tipping point of whether or not to stay together.
It’s usually not a great question to say “do I love you?” because sometimes the answer is yes I do. And then confusion sets in.
There’s a bigger and better question to ask, and that question is - can I continue to be with you and not value violate a core value of my life?
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Repairing after a rupture is a great healthy relationship routine. But what do we do with repair and rupture in divorce?
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Developing your response-ability is key to enjoying life in general and your divorce in particular.
